What is somatic sex education?

Somatic sex education is hands-on, body-based learning that helps you reconnect with sensation, pleasure, and embodiment through guided, consent-based practices with a certified educator.

Is this therapy or medical treatment?

No. Sex and intimacy coaching with Dr. Liz Ray is not psychotherapy, and she is not a licensed social worker or marriage and family therapist. She offers coaching and education, not therapy or medical advice.

Are sessions available online?

Yes. Dr. Liz Ray offers both in-person sessions in Lisbon, Portugal, and online sessions for clients across the US and Western Europe.

What qualifies Liz Ray as a somatic sex educator?

Liz Ray is a certified somatic sex educator and intimacy coach with 30+ years of somatic teaching experience across dance, expressive arts therapy, and yoga.

Prostate Massage

A prostate massage with me is a spacious, two-hour session focused on comfort and safety. It is suitable for any penis-owner who is curious about learning more about their inner landscape. We start with a clear explanation of the session’s sequence, make time for questions, and follow this with some whole-body grounding touch for relaxation. Prostate work is introduced gradually, with your permission, inviting deeper awareness and release.

Erections or ejaculation are welcome but not expected; the emphasis is on exploring sensation, emotional release, and subtle energy shifts. Benefits include reduction of tension or swelling in the groin, improved urine flow, help with symptoms of erectile dysfunction, and expanded orgasmic sensitivity. Sessions end with quiet rest and aftercare guidance to support integration.

How it works

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Enjoy your experience!

Frequently asked questions

1. For straight men: Will getting a prostate massage effect my sexual orientation?

No. You will learn a lot more about your body. People’s sexual orientation generally develops early on and feels innate. If you’re straight, a prostate massage will not impact this. It could possibly expand your interest in exploring more kinds of sexual experiences with your partner, or in solo play with a toy, but it won’t magically change your sexual orientation.

2. Who should not have a prostate massage?

A man with bacterial prostatitis should avoid them since they could possibly make the bacteria spread. A man with hemorrhoids or fissures should wait until they’re healed before having a prostate massage. It’s questionable whether a man with prostate cancer should be stimulating the sensitivity of this area through a massage.

3. What’s the difference between penile and prostate orgasm?

A penile orgasm is focused primarily in the penis. A prostate orgasm is a slower, wave-like full-body experience that can be felt throughout the whole body, even outside of the penis. With conscious practice and exploration, a man can learn to have prostatic orgasmic experiences even without ejaculating.

About the author:

Dr. Liz Ray is a certified somatic sex educator and intimacy coach based in Lisbon, Portugal, helping men and women ages 30-70 reconnect with pleasure, safety, and embodied confidence. Drawing on 30+ years of somatic teaching experience, she offers hands-on sex education in person in Lisbon and online worldwide, guiding clients through masturbation coaching, vulva mapping, prostate massage, and intimacy coaching, releasing shame and building lasting sexual confidence.